A Q&A With Texas Author of The Men's Guide to the Women's Bathroom
We recently spoke with first-time author Jo Barrett about her
novel, The Men's Guide to the Women's Bathroom.
1. When and where was the "Aha!" moment for this book? The Men's Guide to the Women's Bathroom came about as I was
transitioning to a new life back in Austin. I guess you could say I made
a "major life change." I moved back to Austin from New York City, and
started hitting the nightlife scene with a bunch of women. We were all
at different stages in our lives: Some of us had been married and
divorced; some of us had children; and some of us were still single. I
noticed that the action got redirected into the women's bathroom. The
bathroom became our powder room powwow; our secret confessional, our
sanctuary. It is a place of bonding and sharing among women! You rarely
hear the words, "Mind your own business," in the women's bathroom. It's
a very inclusive place. In fact, two women can enter a bathroom as
strangers and leave as friends.
2. Do women in Texas and the South spend more time in bathrooms
than women in New York?
Southern women have flair. And Southerners like to preen in front of the
mirrors in their bathrooms. We do what's known as the "turn and twirl."
That is, we check the backside as much as the front side. Full-length
mirrors are crucial in our bathroom, right ladies? I interviewed so many
women for this book–from New York to Texas to California and found out
an amazing fact: The "sorority of stall chatterers" is universal! All
across the country, you find women going to the bathroom in pairs and
really bonding in the bathroom. We aren't like men. For men, going to
the bathroom is a solo event. It's in and out. Badda bing. Badda boom.
For women, our bathrooms are like private clubs. Once we're inside, we
tend to stay for awhile. I would love to write a follow-up novel with
real-life stories from the women's bathroom. If you have a great story,
please send me an e-mail to my Web site, www.Bathroombookgirl.com. I've
already received some fantastic stories. My favorite is about a pair of
twins who were both newly married, and decided to play a joke on their
husbands. During dinner at a steak restaurant, they went inside the
bathroom and changed into each other's clothes! Then, for the rest of
the dinner, they pretended to be the other twin! Isn't that priceless!
3. Like your character, Claire, did you write on tissue dialogue
overheard in the women's room?
Yes! Whenever I heard fantastic dialogue taking place inside the women's
bathroom, I wrote it down. (P.S. Cocktail napkins work better than
toilet tissue.) I guess you could say I became a "bathroom-ologist." My
favorite pearl of wisdom I overheard in the women's bathroom is: "Don't
be the welcome mat to the man in your life—be the door he feels lucky to
walk through." The woman who said this was comforting a girlfriend over
a recent breakup. I think she did a tremendous job! The women's bathroom
is a place for sisterhood. Remember, ladies. We are women first!
4. Why do you love being back in Texas?
What's not to love? You've heard of the slogan: "Don't mess with Texas."
Well, I believe this slogan refers to Texas women. Texas gals tend to
give it to you straight. No guff. No fluff. Texas women make great
characters in novels because they are gutsy, and full of bravado and
panache.
5. Tell us about your next project.
My next novel is entitled Killing Carlton. It is about a Texas gal with
a penchant for revenge. When my female lead character gets her heart
broken by her ex, she decides to hire a bumbling mob hit man. Her motto
is: Don't get mad, get even! But of course, she doesn't want to kill her
ex. She just wants to play pranks on him. I think every woman can relate
to wanting to get revenge against a certain man. I'm thrilled that both
The Men's Guide to the Women's Bathroom, and my next novel, Killing
Carlton, are both being shopped as television and motion picture
projects in Hollywood! Great news for any author!
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"Heather was married right out of
college. (In Texas, they call this the "starter marriage.") She and her
husband spent their honeymoon in the British Virgin Islands at a posh
resort called The Bitter End.
This part of the story has a point, and here it is:
Heather and I are at a brew pub in downtown Austin drinking these
cute little flats of beer. You know the kind, where they serve those
itsy-bitsy two-ounce beer glasses and give you the description of each
one and you think you're not drinking that much but you're getting
completely hammered. Well, we've ordered this beer called Bitter End
Lager and we're throwing it back like tequila shots. So the fact that
Heather has met another "future husband" while drinking Bitter End beer
doesn't occur to either of us."